I don't know sawks you met her a week ago and you're already in a R and have met the kids. This sounds like really shakey grounds. Talk about rushing things!!!
I'm going to be completly honest with you and tell you that I honestly feel sorry for you that you are unable to have enough self-esteem to be by yourself long enough to get like yourself a little better. I know that you have been S about 4 months but you were trying on your M just 2 weeks ago so that is actually how long you have been by yourself not the full amount of time you were S. Plus you still live with your W.
I hate to seem so harsh but I am just calling it as I see it. And the fact that kids are now involved too makes it even a stickier situation.
Hi sep,
Yes I decided to give a R a try.. with the kids, i asked her over and over again are you sure? She was OK with it, we decided to give a R a try. I am not trying to sound like Mr.everythingsok but i feel more comfortable already with her than i ever did with the w, and the more and more i think about it i think i was more in love with the fact that i was married than the person i was actually married to.. hope that makes sense.
You know what, really i have been alone alot longer than that, the last year of my M really, really sucked.I don't want to get into too much details, but W had wanted to try for kids, but don't you need to have sex for that to happen? ..anyways that's besides the point. Remember i was on a field assignment for 2 years of the 3 year M.. so saw W every weekend only for 2 years.. so i have been alone for quite some time
I have been sep for 4 months and the last month is where i decided to say I am done, i haven't and likely won't change my mind on that.
i don't have anything left to say. I know I am going to come under fire on this site, and I am OK with that.
