Thank you sawks. I don't feel so wise, today, I just hurt, but, I've chosen a direction. I had a friend point out to me that in the good, better, best distinction, I'm doing a better job of handling emotional pain than I could be. I could be checking out.
Sawks, I'm beyond judging. Your W is mad, tough.
I will say that never is a long time and only imagine that if she changed and grew and adopted DBing, then I do imagine that you might reconsider. What I hear you saying is that you would never consider getting back together with who she is now. I'm coming to a similar place. I love my W amazingly, but, I would not welcome her back the way she is right now.
Like I said sawks, go find some happiness and in some ways be thankful there are no kids involved.
Cheers, Dan
Dan are you on FB?
I have moved into a R with a girl with 2 kids, and you are right never is a very very long time, and also correct that who she is right now is someone i would not consider being with, I am getting treated so nice right now it feels really good. And I can send that back to someone who recognizes it as well. I guess I will continue to post and monitor my new R and see what happens. I will say I did meet the kids this weekend, so we both made a decision to make a real good go at this. It's early and time will tell, but it was kind of cool hanging out trying to watch a movie with 2 kids dangling over me on the couch.
