I had a moment and I wanted to stop by and say hello to all my DB buddies.
So many new faces and some old buddies..Great to read about all of you!
Well, we had a great summer. My son starts high school this week and my D11 will be in sixth grade. They are doing so well and I cannot believe that four years ago almost to the day my Xh told me he was leaving. Rather, I found out via cell phone message on his cell he was having an A. So many bad memories but many good memories since then.
As of last Thursday, I was offered a full time temp position for four months at a local college as a writing professor. I worked there part time last year and absolutely loved it so you can only imagine how thrilled I was to get offered this job!
As for New Guy..well, it's been three years and it's better than ever. We had a great weekend so far..beach, steamers at a local oceanside bar, now home for a movie. Kids are at XH's. Who, by the way, I am getting long great with as of the last year. He is even nice to New Guy!
Do I think he regrets it..absolutely. He has told me so. Funny, how we came to a place where we sort of let go of the garbage that happened. Well, at least i think we did. He is still tightly wound and I see him flucuating with his moods, still, but not as bad. He is back and forth with his g.f. aka the Rat but mostly off. He is with her by default and she knows it. The kids are constantly saying stuff about her. I just listen but she is not bad to the kids. She and my XH just fight all the time. Ugh..don't miss that.
So, life is good. I have a new career, new man, I got the house, my garden, my life!
