I guess I missed something here but why is that you seem to think everyone still looks at ex as "the annointed one"? Have people said this? Do they know what she's done? I gotta tell you this is rarely the case if people know the truth. For whatever reason, and it could be as simple as people not wanting to get in the middle just in case things should turn around, people sometimes just stand by silently. I always hated this and took it as weakness, but in fairness, they do have their own reasons. You know, I have been amazed when people finally have stepped up and told me that they felt what ex did was wrong. I've been divorced for a year, and had a very long separation, but it wasn't until a month ago that one of ex's friends told me that they never understood or agreed with what he did. I think you might be amazed if you knew what people really thought.
As far as still having down days. Well I think that's pretty normal and still says you're grieving. Nothing wrong with that. It will only make you stronger.
Besides, who cares what THEY think. All your friends here love you and think you're great. Face it,Your wife's a tool!
