Don't your children have grandparents? You have the right to tell your H that your children have grandparents and that it is too confusing for them to call OW's parents names that are reserved for real family. I guess you probably don't need to say "real."
These men are too much...only think about themselves. Shame on OW's parents for not saying something themselves.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
