I don't know that ignoring him is the best way, it's kind of hard to. Just try to be calm. You are bound to shed tears over this. That is normal. Just try not to do it in front of him. No pursuing at all!!! If he wants to talk about the D, just calmly tell him you do not feel right now is the appropriate time, and walk away. It will be very hard, I am not going to lie to you. You will need to take a leap of faith. But in the long run, it does pay off.
DBing is also about finding yourself. I think we get caught up in our M's and sometimes we lose who we are, just us. I don't think you can have a solely ME in marriage, but at the same time you have to have a little of yourself left for yourself. Try and focus on you right now. It is easier said than done, trust me. But take care of you.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
