Thank you sawks. I don't feel so wise, today, I just hurt, but, I've chosen a direction. I had a friend point out to me that in the good, better, best distinction, I'm doing a better job of handling emotional pain than I could be. I could be checking out.
Sawks, I'm beyond judging. Your W is mad, tough.
I will say that never is a long time and only imagine that if she changed and grew and adopted DBing, then I do imagine that you might reconsider. What I hear you saying is that you would never consider getting back together with who she is now. I'm coming to a similar place. I love my W amazingly, but, I would not welcome her back the way she is right now.
Like I said sawks, go find some happiness and in some ways be thankful there are no kids involved.
