I guess I dont mean my days over all just considering the fact that he is always away on business. He is leaving again on Tuesday to visit wth his parents. I am hoping they will be able to convince him to go to counseling. I feel our chances will be much better. I am currently in school again and have a lot of studying to do. Do I just keep to myself while he and are in the same home or do I try and spwnd time with him. Im not sure if I just ignore him or if that makes it just uncomfertable.