wow Nik, you've got everyone begging for your advice!!! It feels really good to know that your M would work out, and now it really IS on the road to victory.
On your friend mentioning not forgetting to take care of you, this is one of the easiest things to let go of. I know I already have somewhat, but it is harder when you have no family around. Definitely keep what she said to heart forever, because I think the biggest reason we end up here is because we allow ourselves to think that our spouse is suppose to make us happy. it's subconscious, but it happens so easily.
Glad to see you had fun! Have you had any dinner parties again? I remember your last one was a great hit!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
