Still I worry (which is a weakness in my own faith that I must continue to work upon) that my sons will continue to be persuaded by the consensus, that if W is the "blessed" one, then their father must be the "guilty" one. It is certainly easier said than done, but I need to put my trust in the Lord and not worry about it.
Yeah, I worry about stuff like that, too. Today I was talking to my D8 and she was sad we can't go on family trips together anymore (mom, dad, and kids) and she said "well, it's nobody's fault." And I told her well I don't know about that, b/c Dad having a girlfriend I don't see as blameless. I told her that I think that is wrong and I hope she never would do something like that or her husband would do that either.
I mean, I know I had my faults, esp. depression last year, but that is something which killed/ended the marriage. I don't know if I should be so honest with her, but I don't want to just brush H's A off like it is some normal, OK everyday thing. I do worry they will be kind of immoral when they grow older and stuff b/c of their dad's example, you know? I will pray about that, good idea. Karen
