Cinders.. Disappointed??? are you crazy??? Do you ever read back over your old posts and see how far you have come!! You have really handled your situation well!
Having the kids call someones unrelated parents, grandma and grandpa is repulsive!! Your H is trying really hard to act like nothing is wrong....Does OW's family know that H is still married to you...that he just spent the day with his REAL family...that you have vacationed as a FAMILY??
Cinders you are experiencing normal feelings! You are the healthy one!