Do nothing. At this point, let him take the lead. I am telling you, the first few days of this can be very telling, and you are going to want to break. If you need to cry, do NOT do it in front of him. Right now, you will not illicit the response you want, and you will end up hurting more.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..