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rheagan #1576858 08/31/08 08:35 PM
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First, breath. This is going to be hard, and it is not going to be a overnight process. I, myself, have been working at it for a year, and have made my share of mistakes. The decision you have to make right now is are you ready for a very long fight?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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no faults here, i have an attorney friend willing to review all papers

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Okay that is good. Then you are way ahead of some of us...I live in Texas and you can file just because.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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i know its not an overnight fix but not sure where to begin, I am willing to fight

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Okay. The first thing you are going to have to do is remain calm at all times. Right now, he is not going to hear you. As much as you are going to want to, don't beg, plead, or cry for him to stay. Trust me when I say the quicker you implement this, the quicker it will work. I didn't do this until about four months ago, and the results I have seen in that time have been tremendous. If he wants to go, let him go.

Do you share the house you live in?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

rheagan #1576866 08/31/08 08:40 PM
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do i try and bring it up tomorrow when he gets home or not pester him, do I ack like all is well or let him know how much i hurt, do I hug him or ignore him, im lost....

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Do nothing. At this point, let him take the lead. I am telling you, the first few days of this can be very telling, and you are going to want to break. If you need to cry, do NOT do it in front of him. Right now, you will not illicit the response you want, and you will end up hurting more.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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we will be living in sep rooms as of tomorrow, I had been staying at a friends but decided to come home while he was away on business, he is ok with me staying here, but he will be leaving town again very soon

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This is going to be a huge emotional roller coaster. Think Six Flags roller coaster and multiply it by 1,000,000. Have you got a copy of DR?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Stay in the house. Trust me on this.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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