Hi RH: Saw you post on my thread and wanted to stop by and check out what is going on.

First of all breath. Take a big, deep breath. It will be okay. We have all been where you have been. The initial reaction is horrible, isn't it? Feels like you have been sucker punched in the stomach.

Your H is right, this doesn't have anything to do with you. It is his problem. But that doesn't mean there aren't things you can do.

Tell me, RH, what were you like before you got married?

Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..