I need advise! I am 26 years old and have been with my husband since highschool. We have been married for almost 3 years and he told me last week he no longer is in love with me and dosnt think we will work out in the future. He says he loves me more than anything and only wants what is best for me but knows it isnt him. He is only focussed on his carrer and wants to not worry about anything other than that. "I am not his priority". He dosnt want a wife or kids (we have been trying ot get pregnant now for almost 2 years). This came out of the blue. We had this same discussion a year ago and he came running back saying he was just confused and realized didnt want to loose me. Now he is saying that the same problem still exist, he never got over it the fist time and we just have been ignoring the facts for a year now. He says he loves the person I am, I have done nothing wrong (sucks beacause I dont know how to change to make him fall back in love) he just dosnt think he is willing or able to make me happy in the long run. He travels for a living and I have been out of town on a mission trip and as of last week staying with friends. We have seen each other only 3 days this month. He is away on business (as always) and I decided to move back home. He hasnt called in 5 days and finally today I broke down and called him. Very distant, superficial conversation. He is ok with me staying at the house until he gets paper work ( he has already spoken with a lawyer and paperwork is underway), and finances situated. We have been very civil, mostly beacause I am walking on egg shells and dont want to push him away by bringing up the subject and fighting with him. I have backed away gracioulsy, hoping he would see what life is like without me but it hasnt done me any good. His family think he will be open to councel yet he tells me it is postponing the inevitable. He is coming home tomorrow night and I dont know what to do. Help!!
