Wanted to post an update:

1.H did not buy me a card for birthday but was very interested in hearing what I did. He did take S out shopping for me and even pichted in a few dollars to help cover the balance of gift. Let S buy a exspensive card that plays music as well and H had to pay for that...so, I see it as a positive because he could have said no, he did not have the money for it.

3. Still hoping for Tuesday Conversation as well. Today when I got home, H wanted to know what I did for birthday and seemed happy that I had a good time. He stayed to talk with me about S for a few minutes and even said he was going to cut the grass on Tuesday night when he comes over. He downloaded some music that I had asked for onto my computer. All seem to be good sings.

4. Left tickets out in a place I knew he would see them. H never brought it up so I am going to drop this goal because I do not want to be seen as persuing by asking again.


Still trying to think of ways to help build up the love bank. H still is set on D at the moment, but I have time in that area. Any suggestions?


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

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