Is it just sex....or more?????

[NikB]

I forgot to mention - on the meetups - if you are very clear in your OWN mind that you're going to make friends, not find "someone new," you'll give off that vibe pretty well. And if you run across a more clueless guy, you can simply say you're only interested in making friends. If they're still missing the point.. first off avoid them or make it clear you're NOT interested, and you can always talk about "when my H and I went on vacation" or whatever.. drop him into the conversation. Not a lot as you don't want to focus on him, but it should be enough that most would get the hint. If you're still wearing your rings, keep 'em on.. that helps too.