He came by to pick up one of the debit cards and he started getting upset because 2 days ago I asked his Dad to send me the clothes D had there. I told his Dad is was so could see if anything was missing or lost. His Mom apparently got upset with that and didn't understand why if she has bought D clothes why all of it should be here. I had told his dad I wanted to do an inventory of sorts and I'd send more clothes back. XH was telling me that he had to deal with his Moms sh!t AND my sh!t. I couldn't get a word in edgewise.
Then he started in about Thursday night. He told me I had said I'd be back at 8 when I know for a fact I told him I was going out around 8. He was upset because I didn't call Thursday to clarify. I was clear so why should I have had to clarify. He said that I call for dumb stuff but I couldn't have called him Thursday. I asked him why he didn't call me to clarify.
This is dumb. I'm so sick of it. Everytime I think I'm doing the right thing I get slapped in the face.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
