You XH hit the CT Lottery. What a home run! A girl friend with 4 kids AND a studio apartment above a garage! WOW! It doesn't get any better than that! Left a woman who loved him and the ability to see his kids every waking moment. Excellent judgment of what "HAPPY" means. Yep, that's once lucky man. Away from his own kids AND with a woman who has 4 of her own! Divorce IS AWESOME!!!!!