D8 just told me OW came along with them to the bookstore yesterday!!! I tried to act like I was calm and didn't say anything to her. OMG!!! I am trying not to hate him! I hope the L can do something (she is supposed to be back in office tomorrow). If not something now, hopefully this will help custody or something. He just spent 9 or 10 days with her on vacation and then he can't spend 2 days just with the kids! I guess I should be happy they haven't had any sleepovers, but I'm sure as soon as we actually get divorced that will be the next step. D8 just told me she came over to his apartment and spent time there also and brought the kids lemonade and candy. Karen