sorry tawny is going through all this crap with her mom
remember
you are NOT her roommate
don't let her think that way...it puts her in an adult role and she is stilla little girl and wants to be one...to be taken care of and worried over...which I know you do but don't lket her say those things without correcting it.
a roommate smokes and drinks and brings "friends" over to spend the night
roommates are on equal footing
but you know all that...my teacher instinct just flared up!!
it's hard but you are doing good...it will get easier (which brings a whole new set of pangs too)