Well, I haven't asked, I've accused, not quite the same thing. At our last MC session when talking about my snooping, W said "I don't have to defend myself." In the past she has said that all I needed to do was ask her. I pointed out in MC that I was asking her and she wasn't telling me anything which is why I was snooping.
I honestly don't believe that she can admit what she is doing. I remember someone over in Infidelity posting that their H refused to admit that there was an affair even with the pictures of him kissing the OW in front of him.
I'm not sure that it's necessary. I'm not looking to burn her around town, though I have thought that I should get all the men together and ask them if she told them that she has the gift that keeps on giving. I don't have it, for whatever reason, I'm immune to getting it from her. Seriously, this is a tough question for me. On the one hand I think that they deserve to know and at the same time I kind of feel like it is their just punishment for screwing a married woman. I'll think on that one for a while.
Let's say that I haven't completely decided, but, I've mostly decided.
