SD..that was a great response and I'm sure you know how important teachers are and how I remember each and everyone I had.

The change that will have to be revealed to my STBXW will be startling. She may not give a hoot...or may put it on the pile of character flaws that she believes I have (like vile and disgusting)...but I doubt she will care one way or another. The relationship we now have is cold...functional...minimally cordial...amazing to think that we were husband and wife once. Yesterday, she hit me up for $24 to cover the kids doctor copays. Although I AM responsible for that, it seems pretty petty.

I'll ask her to give me the receipts.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;