I think you are doing a good job how you are acting towards your W. You are taking yourself out of the equation by being good to your W. She seems to be very unsure of her actions and doesn't seem to want to be very far from you.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford