I left a post that I thought was cute (in a twisted way) only to find it gone. It was about a brochure your spouse must have read whose name I don't recall. How everything that seems so wrong to you feels so right for him...
The message to me is.. being negative about something (like I was) rarely leads to something positive. With that in mind..
Hurray for you, ms. lwb... you are incredibleness incarnate!