Hey Jen, is your H a Scorpio?? They can be VERY possessive, jealous and brooding (thats the negative side of the sign).. and scorpios can hold onto things emotionally for a long time, they bury it deep and remember past hurts, they find it hard to let go of them. I'm not surprised that he says he bears grudges! If he is like this, I am not sure what you can do? Isnt there something in the DB books that say, just say to them, if I have upset/hurt you it wasnt intentional, and then leave it at that?
I have sent you a message on FB !
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread