Hi Mandyloo, Thanks for posting on my thread. I am amazed that you were still checking the BB on your holiday. I also have periods when I feel drawn to the BB to check on others.
I am happy for you that you had such a good time with your son on your holiday. You deserved it so much after what you went through. I hope for you that things will get better for you and your son.
It is interesting that your H is finally waking up a bit. He seems to notice that something is missing in his life.
I agree with braveheart and also think you are doing the right thing by letting your son decide if he wants to have contact with his father. I think though that he should keep in touch with him. It is very important for a boy to have contact with the father. I am sure your son will make the right decision.