True, I never take my bulbs up in the fall and then replant them in the spring. Is there some reason you would have to do that?
I would sent him the note, but leave the unhappy part out. He's looking to you to bail him out once again. It's okay to be supportive, but once again, he's dropped the difficult things in his life in your lap. It's time for True to start telling him no in some things.
Have a delightful Sunday!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Hi Snodderly, Thank you for checking in on me and your advice. As always it is so much appreciated.
I think I will just do that. As you said it is time for me to start saying NO.
Re tulips I have some in the garden which I just leave in but they don't do well. They get smaller every year or sometimes they don't have any flowers at all. I must say that I love to look at nicely done and flowery gardens, but I am just not a person to work in the garden much. I'd rather be out and about than gardening. So I guess I will never plant any tulips - LOL.
Hi Cinders, Nice of you to drop in. Although I often think of you and others on this BB, it was somehow unexpected that others are thinking of me and my sitch. I never thought of it that way! It was a strange but good feeling. (((HUGS)))
Cinders, I just noticed that your thread locked and that I posted to you on glamers thread. I repeat it here:
Hi Cinders, Thanks for visiting my thread and thinking of me. I just finished reading on my post when yours showed up.
I hope you are OK and enjoying your super kids. I also wish you a lovely Sunday. (((HUS))) xxx
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
truelove, just to let you know I am thinking of you and although I have been away I still was having a peek at how you were doing, have a lovely sunday and keep being strong, show the man what you are made of and dont let him get you down.
Hi Mandyloo, Thanks for checking in on me and your encouraging words.
I am having a bit of a problem with posting. I think it is because my PC is updating some programms and as I don't have broadband at the moment, the capacity is not enough to do several things at once. So I guess I will have to let the PC complete the update and hopfully, it will be better again.
Journaling: I had not too bad a day, but sometimes I just get so sad. As the weather was not terribly nice, I worked in the garden for a while. Tomorrow should be nicer again, and I intend to go to a concert in the evening.
I still have not written to H, and he has not contacted me either. I will wait a bit longer with my reply.
Sorry to read you get sad sometimes....it's a never ending story isn't it ?! I cleaned and organised the house for most of today - felt really good. Getting rid of clutter clears the mind !
Take care xxxx And thanks for your post to me xxx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
