Steal away!! If my ideas fit for you, that's great. Wow.. 5?? That is GREAT!!! I am SO happy to see it. \:D \:D \:D

The meetup thing... yes, it's kinda awkward at first. Just be careful and have street smarts, I promise it's not too crazy.

If you go to the "sex & the city" group I recommended... I PROMISE... no guys will show up unless you're looking for 'em.

As for the other groups, In some cases I DID meet males who were looking to meet someone new and in some cases it's ALL they wanted. But it was rare and honestly out of 10 people who showed up, it might be 1 of them and it was pretty easy to avoid. I never met any guys I chose to spend any time with beyond "we all showed up at dinner." I DID however meet some really great female friends, 3 of whom I still email and get together with regularly... and if we don't "talk" in awhile we worry about each other.

Sounding stronger, and I'm glad to see it.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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