I suppose here it is called a Plan B. Dobson wrote a book called Love Must be Tough and he's got a copy of the letter in there. That book is excellent; he is very Christian, very pro-family and pro-marriage, but even HE doesn't think a person is supposed to "just take it".
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Because if i change my course from where I am now, to a direction of "moving on."... once I'm fully headed in that direction, I may never decide to change back, even if she asks me to.
Isn't there a danger of this happening regardless? And maybe not just "regardless", but because you are keeping yourself mired in it? Seems like there is lots of talk on this site about moving forward with your life, while still leaving the door slightly cracked.
Hey, if you got the stamina and the desire to keep on going, then by all means... Your wife is lucky to have someone so dedicated to the family.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
