Originally Posted By: Trixi
((Dom))
A Dobson letter basically says "I can't have contact with you because I want to protect what little positive feelings I have for you."


odd, i thought that was a "plan B" letter, not a dobson letter.


Quote:

What makes you stay in your current situation? What keeps you from telling her that you are letting her go and moving on?
(Not asking rhetorically, I really want to know.)


Because if i change my course from where I am now, to a direction of "moving on."... once I'm fully headed in that direction, I may never decide to change back, even if she asks me to.

The part of me that cares about our family, doesnt want to go there.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle