((Dom)) A Dobson letter basically says "I can't have contact with you because I want to protect what little positive feelings I have for you."
odd, i thought that was a "plan B" letter, not a dobson letter.
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What makes you stay in your current situation? What keeps you from telling her that you are letting her go and moving on? (Not asking rhetorically, I really want to know.)
Because if i change my course from where I am now, to a direction of "moving on."... once I'm fully headed in that direction, I may never decide to change back, even if she asks me to.
The part of me that cares about our family, doesnt want to go there.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle