What are your goals for WAS?

[No Longer BH]

Ok, in Michelle's book DR, she has us make some goals that we can then use as a way to measure if our WAS are making baby steps back to R. For us new to piecing, it would help to hear what some of the goals where for those who made it through and to have feedback on our current goals.

Here is a list of goals that I have created in hopes of seeing results in the next 2 weeks:

1. My birthday was today so I hope H bought me a card. If he did that would tell me I still at least hold a place in his heart, if not, that is ok, just means I still have work to do to make him feel trust with us.

2. H IM's me 2 times to have light, pleasant conversation all on his own. Would tell me he is thinking of me and enjoys have a conversation with me.

3. H wants to stay for conversation after I get home Tuesday night. Means we are no longer as uncomfortable around eachother, and he is not trying to run away from me, but is enjoying my company.

4. H ask about concert I invited him to last week to see if he can go. I have not brought it up since. It would mean we could have a pleasant evening out and a chance to add to his love bank.

Ok, now that I have shared, time for you to share as well. I would love to hear comments on if mine are not action orientative enough or need revision. I would also love to hear what work for others or what others are trying. This is a support forum, so lets share some ideas and try to get some more D busted!