I know what you mean about seeing her. Seems just when I'm doing good and not thinking about my X I see her and it all starts up again.
This is a problem for me as well. Sometimes I think it would be nice if she would just go away until she wanted to come home. Unfortunately, with kids, that is impossible.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford