Phil, I have no interest in fighting with you. I have no interest in making you angry so I will make this my last post to you.
My point is that you should look inward at your own actions. You may not think you are blaming her but you are every time to talk to her. I don't need to read about 600 posts to see that everything you do is just more of the same. Your interactions with her are an endless cycle of anger.
I didn't post to you to get smart a$$ comments. I posted to try give you some help. To try to make you realize that your actions are not those of someone trying to save their marriage. I realize that I'm being harsh to you but I am not one to blow smoke up your butt. You obviouly have a problem handling your anger and I think you should seek some help for that. I agree that your situation is a mess but at this point I think you have to take as much of the burden of that as your W.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford