((Dom))
A Dobson letter basically says "I can't have contact with you because I want to protect what little positive feelings I have for you."

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But, after 2 years, I'm starting to believe her when she says never.
If that's really true... i dont want to waste the next 10 years of my life, trying for the impossible. The miserable thing is, though.. i cant know if it is true.


I'll refer you back to Minkerman's sitch-when he 'gave up', his wife came back.

Did you see the quote I posted on my thread that I took from "LoginName"s thread? Where he basically told his wife that he was going to move on- that he was in no hurry to get a D, but he needed to move on for his own sanity.

What makes you stay in your current situation? What keeps you from telling her that you are letting her go and moving on?
(Not asking rhetorically, I really want to know.)

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing