John, how did it go with you and W? Did she go to Mexico? I wish I had been checking this board more often, sorry I missed your situation.
I would not say you are in left field. I know my situation is different from yours in that my H had a full-on A. But still, her wanting to go away without you over Labor Day weekend is crap, in my opinion. I know I sound a little harsh. But, if it is a condo, why couldn't you and D have gone, too? Or, better yet, your mom could watch D and the two of you could have gone alone?? I know I would NOT be okay with H taking a private vacation after saying he wanted to work on things with me...
I think you have the right to be upset. I just don't know what you plan to do about it...
Please, check in with us and let us know how you are doing...........