Just wanted to pop in and say hi. Thanks for posting on my thread. I don't have much to add in the way of advice. It seems like you are doing great. I did have a question though.
One of my hubbys biggest things was the constant arguing and I was wondering if you guys have ever considered counseling? I know you read through my sitch so you must know that counseling is literally saving my marriage and that without it we would probably be divorced already. I'm just wondering where you stand on the issue and if you have ever mentioned it to him. If so what was his reaction?
I'm not saying that you can't figure this mess out without counseling but at the same time it seems to be moving things along faster for me and thought maybe it would do the same for you. It seems weird that he would want to throw away a relationship that has gone on as long as yours has. Especially after only one year of marriage. Counseling might help you sort that stuff out, or at least get it to the surface so it can be dealt with.
