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MMF, It is erie, the similarities between us. My W and I broke up for 4 months after her second year of university. She was also studying psychology. As was I.

It also occurs to me that you sy that things started changing when your W was doing her masters. Something that is demanding and stressful. Aside from the financal issues. Things started also to change for us when W went to work for a company that put a lot of pressure on her. She had to bring home work almost every night. However, it is hard to point to this directly as a cuse because her bad friend also orked there and most of the other people that wored there were yonger than W and single or divorced. There was also an open lesbian that worked there.

I'm taking my ids to a 40 acre water park tomorrow. It should be a pretty good time.

You have a good weekend too.


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Hope you had a good time at the water park Bro!!
I took the kids up to see grandma and grandpa (W had to work but blew it off anyways..more on that later)
Anyways the kids and I had a great time and so did my mom and dad.
They love the kids and the kids love them! \:\)

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We did have a good time. Went on a few water slides. Went swimming. Paid WAY too much for food. It was good.

Still (not to be a bummer) I look around while I'm there and see all the families having fun and it makes me realize how wrong this all is. Then I wonder if W sees that too in that type of situation.


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Deep down I think they do but they bury it.
far far away. Still I think it comes and haunts them sometimes.


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I think it does too.


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I think it does too.


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It does and I believe it manifests itself in weird ways. for example, yesterday my W practically begged me to let her come to the house and clean.

Why? It's not a disaster, just needs some vacuuming and sweeping. I was going to do it this weekend anyway.

When I told her I didn't need help, she cried and said she felt so guilty for leaving me to do 'everything'.

I felt bad for her and told her it was ok to come over and do some cleaning.

She did, she's happy, and now she's back in la la land.

Read my thread for the details.


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In my case I think it is currently manifesting through the dog issue. W is unusually quiet at the moment too. She hasn't called the kids all week. I'm starting to wonder what is up.


I do follow your threads Frank. I haven't posted in a bit because I haven't had much to add. I do see you regaining your strenth though and that's a good thing.


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In my case I think it is currently manifesting through the dog issue. W is unusually quiet at the moment too. She hasn't called the kids all week. I'm starting to wonder what is up.


I do follow your threads Frank. I haven't posted in a bit because I haven't had much to add. I do see you regaining your strenth though and that's a good thing.


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In my case I think it is currently manifesting through the dog issue. W is unusually quiet at the moment too. She hasn't called the kids all week. I'm starting to wonder what is up.


I do follow your threads Frank. I haven't posted in a bit because I haven't had much to add. I do see you regaining your strenth though and that's a good thing.


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