Ok so here is my list...sorry Nik...stole some of yours, but I liked them:

1. Flowers for my table...flowers always make me feel good \:\)
2. I'm going to buy myself a new outfit (nothing fits anymore anyway and I've been putting off getting something new because of finances, but screw it...that's what plastic is for...right?
3. Going to accept the invite from the mother of my daughter's friend and hang out with them on Labor Day rather than send D with them to have fun and me stay home and sulk.
4. Going to attend an evening event sponsored by the foundation at my work in two weeks.
5. Going to go to the Journey, Cheaptrick, Heart concert in September...wow did that just date me or what???

Holy Crap I have 5!

Okay so Nik...the whole meetups thing...this feels a little awkward to me as it seems like steps to meet someone new...may I ask did you ever meet any "males" you spent time with...how did that affect things with your H and do you still go to these things now that you and H are doing better...does H go too??

Sorry for the questions...it has been sooooooooo long since I concentrated on the "social scene".


Me 39
H 35
D 13