You both said a lot in that convo - now leave it alone for a LONG time. NO MORE R talks.
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What am I going to do...this seems so hopeless and I big part of me is really mad because I wasn't the only one that made mistakes...
The only thing you CAN do.. focus on you, on what you can control. Don't even worry about the R, M, or H right now.
Did you read the 10 tips? Keep reading them til they sink in.
What have you done to GAL? What do you plan to do soon? What are you doing to take care of yourself?
It doesn't matter who made what mistakes right now.. THAT R is over. He doesn't want it, you don't want it. If you reconcile in the future it will be a NEW RELATIONSHIP.. but now's not even the time to worry about any of that.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
