Hi Daisy!! I spent today reading your whole thread here and must congratulate you on your progress!!!
Wow - less than three months and dates and cuddling...I am soo jealous!! LoL. I had almost the same problems with H..going out 3-5 times during the week with his friends, drinking, going to his mommy for help with everything and then finally wanting to "live his own life". We are nowhere near where you and your H are now but I look to your sitch as great inspiration that a guy that is like my H can come around as yours did and my sitch is not hopeless.