We're never getting back together-How do you cope?

[onedge]

That is some good advice there, and I will really be trying hard to do that for the next couple of weeks to see how it goes.

My wife has been on medication for about 2-3 years, but they haven't really helped her much at all, she has had more good days than bad, but when she has bad days they are really bad now. She didn't really try (or i didn't see her try) anything to help with her depression untill after the separation which makes me feel insecure, as she will get happier and happier and I'm not sure if she will think it's because she is trying, or because I'm not there?

I am getting a life whenever I can, no excuses for not, everyone else on here finds the time to do it, why can't I?

I'll do my best to stick with the small talk and I'll try and be the one to end conversations.

Thanks for the advice NC