My first thought is, "What is this, JACKASS WEEK here at DB???" What a pr&ck. Puppy
The answer would have to be YES!!!. Apparently its going around. I talked to MIL a little while ago and apparently she and H have been talking more, which is good in some respects, but I also think that because she has her own agenda, it might have many negative aspects as well. She is glad he has made a C appt. and was telling me she is going to "tell" him to talk to the C about his childhood issues, which is good. She totally disagrees about telling DD about the baby and she has discussed it with her C and the C agrees with her. However, my DD's C says she needs to know now, so she disagreed on that. She then says, well I'll tell him that its something for him to work out with his C. Which is all well & good, but the clock is ticking on this thing and by the time he gets comfortable with the C, the baby might already be here. My only concern on that one is for my DD...the rest of us are adults and will deal accordingly. She is the innocent here. I'm just very wary of MIL right now, she is being cagey and that scares me, but its also not something I can control or change, so it is what it is.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Hope you're doing well after H's "cute" little antics!
Yep DS has known for some time. H dropped that bomb on him in a totally selfish and stupid manner, no changing it now, but it could have been done with a little more finesse.
I actually got a call from H today and he asked me if my stuff still hurt. I asked what he meant and he said, "your feelers" so I just replied that it didn't matter and he said if it didn't matter he wouldn't be asking. Then I told him I would be putting the $$ for the battery in his account and he said that I didn't need to. Buying me the battery was the least he could do and not to worry about it. I also got and ILY each time we have talked. Those used to be standard with him and in the last couple of months, it is a rarity. I don't make a big deal of it, but I noticed. Strange.
I don't know whether or not to be leery of MIL, but I can't help but think that she may do more harm than good and she has been acting really distant.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
It sucks that we never know when these freakin' DAFTs will rear their ugly heads again. *Sigh* It's even worse when we break down and cry, only to have them act even more heartless and cold.
He's a major jackA$$ for saying all the BS he did, and he is DAMN lucky I don't live next door either. I have lived with that kind of crap for FAR TOO LONG, and it has brought me to the point where I don't give a sh** what he thinks - because all I know is that I won't tolerate his stupid BS anymore....and I firmly tell him that.
You take care of you. And let me know if I need to plan a trip soon to open a can.
(((((Corey)))))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
Well I'm sitting here nursing a hangover. Got off work yesterday and decided to go to a friends Pampered Chef party. DAFT was going out and I just didn't feel like staying in. So DD and I went and stayed until about 9pm.
H sounded shocked when he called to see what I was doing and I told him I had plans. Anyway DS was at a friends house and after the PC party we went over there to hang for a while. This is the friend that went to the cardroom with me that night and she is just coming to the end of her similar situation. So DS decided to stay over at their house (they live about 10 houses down from us) and DD and I went home.
I stopped by the store and got a couple of beers and I had a giant Smirnoff Ice at friends. So I sat here talking on the phone with a lady I work with and then my guy friend called and he and I talked for forever. H called and asked to borrow $$ and was kind of an ass when I didn't give it to him, but he kept asking me if I drank at my friends. Then he says, why don't you drink that beer in the fridge? I said, the one you poured out? So he starts laughing and I told him he was being a jack ass and I needed to go. So I talked to my guy friend for forever then he stopped by and we say out by the pool and drank until about 3:30. H actually called while we were out there and I really didn't have much to say. He is really easy to talk to and so we just talked a lot about my sitch and his. He is raising his daughter and he also has a partner that he has been with for a long time.
I finally went to bed at about 4:30 and I had a nail & toes appt this am at 11...my ass was draggin. I feel like hell but I'm not saying anything to anyone. H was just here to get DS so they could go do "fantasy football" drafts. Thats about it. Nothing new, no drama...just life. Whats his deal with the beer and the drinking? I don't get why he even cares?
Last edited by Sugar and Spice; 08/31/0812:27 AM.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I have lived with that kind of crap for FAR TOO LONG, and it has brought me to the point where I don't give a sh** what he thinks - because all I know is that I won't tolerate his stupid BS anymore....and I firmly tell him that. 
