So true b39. I was left cold by his clinical and distant message. I would have been totally devastated had I not remembered that a necessary stage of DB is friendship and must occur before any successful reconciliation. Still, I was (partially) crushed, but had to remind myself that the act of buying, writing, and sending a card to comemmorate our anniversary meant something - regardless of the words he wrote.


Me: 59
H: 59
Together: 28 years
Married: 25 years in August
"There may be someone else" 12/26/07
H signed a one year lease 4/1/08
H moved out 5/11/08
H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08
Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08