Oh, I'm just going to loose it. I can not even describe what mess transpired.
I texted for the kids to call they didn't. So I called. No answer. I call her other phone no answer. Then I'm leaving a voice mail and there is an incoming call.
My son wants to be with me. But can't decide on a time.
Then I ask to talk to wife. Really I don't even know why I bothered. I'm pissed about her throwing things in my face all the time that are irrelevant or not true.
I said I expect the kids to answer the phone when I call. She says you don't answer the phone when I call you.
See going dark or dim isn't working. Backfire.
I said for now on. If you need to talk with me you use your other phone. I will call you on that phone. She says I will not answer it then. She asks me not to call her other phone.
(Answer me this board... why does someone need two cell phones)
What the??? she isn't going to answer her other phone if I call it.
Bull crap.
She said that is the family phone.
I said I want my ring too. And if you talk to me about stuff maybe you would get favors. She says I'm driving her nuts. etc... She says she will bring son to me soon.
I text her and say I'm going to the store be back at 2. I text. Family phone. Dysfunctional family phone. Make sure you bring my ring.
I get home 10 after 2. She is in the house taking stuff. Clothes for daughter. Bag after bag of them. Daugther tells me that she is getting rid of stuff that doesn't fit.
I said when are you going to stop killing my soul. She said she was done doing that. Well things were going well. I asked her if she was going to write down what she was giving away so I can deduct it on taxes. She said yes. And then she started getting crazy again.
Basically she walked out the house was screaming at me and flipped me off. She called me her sisters x's name. Said I was just like him. I said oh no, I'm nothing like him.
She came back in. I handed her the insurance papers for her to take herself off the car insurance. She doesn't take them. She says you don't pay child support so you can pay the car insurance.
I'm thinking, Really can I get this in writing?
So she walks out again and flips me off.
Then she was spazzing. Because daughter wanted to take the PS2. I said son is playing it and staying here. She starts whining. I said take the Wii then. She was all happy. I can take the Wii. I said take it. She needs help disconnecting it.
I get it all apart and put it on the porch. WIfe is screaming at me to hurry up. I said stop it. Stop it now. I need to get a bag and the directions. This is $350 system.
I go in to get bag, and I see wife walking across the lawn with it.
I said wait I want it in a bag. I don't want it all banged around.
So she is screaming at me to hurry up she is busy, and has allot of stuff to do.
I said just give me a minute please.
I get the Wii box and directions. I give them to daughter. I said please bring it back tomorrow night. Be good for mommy.
Then I talk calmly to wife.
I said I don't get you. I'm trying to make your life easier but all you want to do is resist. She says well you were never there for me before. I said that isn't true at all. I am your husband, and you should be standing next to me walking through this world together not as enemies.
I pulled out a letter. I said you see this letter I wrote it to you 13 years ago. I could write the same letter to you. She said yeah I been putting up with you for 13 years. I said no wifes name it has been you causing all the problems. Always fighting. Always being crazy about every little thing. It has been you.
I didn't know how to handle you. I used inappropriate langauge at you. I drank to much to try and numb the yelling etc... I'm sorry I didn't know how to handle you and I was wrong at the way I handled you in the past.
