Hello again,

I really, really, really glad this thread has not gone into the wasteland. I hope we can keep it front and center and maybe more people will visit here. I loved what all of you have said so far, and yes, Wifey, I'm going for a pedicure tonight after work. \:\)

Ms. Mel, I also loved what you said although I wish you would elaborate on all of your comments, especially the parts about "control." You also mentioned "there is so much to detaching." Can we hear your thoughts on this too.

Barbie, Thank you as well. I love the examples you give. I am trying and succeeding in some of them. There has to be more than just doing things tho. What is the mindset?

cheers,
poet