So my XH is continuing with the "silent treatment" I remember when we used to fight in the early years of our R he would go silent for days too. Later he grew out of it and it was a relief. He told me recently that he can't forgive and he holds grudges I guess this is a grudge. I wish I knew why he was so upset not that I could do anything about it but it'd be nice to know.
He dropped D off this morning and I was still in bed. I didn't even bother to get up so he thought I was sleeping. He left and that's all I guess I'll hear from him today.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I remember when we used to fight in the early years of our R he would go silent for days too. Later he grew out of it and it was a relief. He told me recently that he can't forgive and he holds grudges I guess this is a grudge. I wish I knew why he was so upset not that I could do anything about it but it'd be nice to know.
