Why! Because my son wanted to be with her after 10. So I dropped him off to her.
Her and I were talking at her front door and it was alright.
Then boom she started her crap.
I asked her if she took the case of bottled water her boss offered her. She said yes, they put it in the car. I said good now you have a supply for daughter. She said I asked you for one little thing by dropping off a bottle water for your daughter and you couldn't even do that.
I freaking lost. I said what are you legs broke. You can't go to the store. It was after 10:30 when you were asking for it. I said I got the water for you, and it was on our porch. You came and got it. I said stop acting like a jacka$$. If you would talk to me I would do favors like that. She said why don't you just go out. I said I don't want to go out. I want to be with my family. Then I left.
I was so p|ssed. I just starting going nuts on her with text. Nothing mean just truthful things. No cussing.
The only thing she said is that I didn't give her any money for CCD, school clothes, or lunch food.
I basically said. If you would talk to me about those things then maybe you would get money. I gave you five thousand dollars. How much more do you need? I pay your car insurance. You car payment. Your medical. how much more do you need?
I said did you give me money to take them to this place or that place? Did you give me money to take them to this pizza resturant, etc... No, but you sure eat the left over pizza we had. You would eat it as soon as you got here to pick up the kids.
Do not even try it I offered money for clothes. I spent over 250 on summer clothes. Plus I do everything with them. You are a liar.
You lie to yourself.
I am better off with out you because nothing is ever good enough. Go blow yourself up.
I do not need your petty crap.
Right, i do not give you anything. I gave you everything I could. Even now I go to school to get a better job in the future for those kids and you.
Everything you say is lies. Talk to me and you will get lunch money.
You never treated me like a man. Never any respect. You once again are doing what you want, and you lie about things you are your mother. A fabricator.
you drove me nuts for 13 years. About every little thing. Why? Why? Why?
You left you gave up. You are the coward. And I'm still praying that you come home. Praying every day with all my free time that you will come home. Every ounce of me praying for you to come home.
Why? because I love you. And I love our family more. You wanted another bed room you got a giant addition that almost killed me. You know I had a heart attack last year. Did you know that?
She text Good night.
I text Nothing good about this night. I used to lvoe her, but I had to kill her. Your sister always said that. B|tched so much she drove me nuts.
Our mortgage is $$$$ a month. What do you give me for that?
A friend of the family died, (named Phil) but you killed me! You killed your Phil. Your Phil.
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How much more stupid can I get? I'm sick of it. I'm tired of all her BS. All her b|tching and complaining. All of it. All the selfishness. All of it. I'm tire of it all. This is the crap I have been putting up with for 11 years. However put a temper on top of it. Verbal abuse, demands, selfishness, and everything else.
I know I lost it... I'm going to continue to loose it.
Because she is wrong.
Over a bottle of water. You know I asked daughter about the bottle water. I said honey were you flipping out. She said no I was crying about it. I said honey didn't I ask you to be good for mommy. You didn't need to cray over a bottle of water for school the next day.
You see the kids were up late. They were driving her nuts, and she took it out on me to help at the last minute. Then since I didn't run to her beckon call this time. She turned it around on me.
Advice. There is no advice for this situation.
What was I suppose to say. You are right. I should have broght the bottle of water to you late last night. You are right I never do anything for you.
Now I'm in a huge house that needs cleaning today. At least the bathrooms are done. This is a holiday weekend. I should just let the cleaning go.
