Sooners I am NO expert and every sitch is different. I would just have a fabulous day with her NO expectations.

I would not mention to see to talk to her weekly. What I would do if God leads you give her a call once in a while or a short e-mail to let her know of a few things once in awhile.

W may take the talk as pressure. She has to feel comfortable and want to initiate the talks. Not you, but you can be kind and loving from a distance.

As you know it has been almost 2 years before my h was ready to see and talk to me on a regular basis.

NO R TALK. Let the day be fun and creative!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"