Sooners I am NO expert and every sitch is different. I would just have a fabulous day with her NO expectations.
I would not mention to see to talk to her weekly. What I would do if God leads you give her a call once in a while or a short e-mail to let her know of a few things once in awhile.
W may take the talk as pressure. She has to feel comfortable and want to initiate the talks. Not you, but you can be kind and loving from a distance.
As you know it has been almost 2 years before my h was ready to see and talk to me on a regular basis.
NO R TALK. Let the day be fun and creative!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"