Jak,
Packed bags indicate your decreasing tolerance for your H's lack of respect for your expectations regarding boundaries. This is different.

Is he aware of the packed bags? I'm hoping their in front of the door.

I think the packed bags also create some space for you, and communicate how you honestly feel about the M. It changes how you relate to your H, even if its private. There is now doubt in your mind. You're like a supervisor watching an employee who's on probation.

CL

Last edited by Concerned_Listener; 08/30/08 12:48 PM.
CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching